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Thursday, July 9, 2015
Hijab-Wearing Student Wins "Best Dressed" Award At New Jersey High School
Abrar Shahin, named best dressed among Clifton High School seniors, talking with friends before Friday's graduation.
Alan: I am routinely struck by the grace and beauty of Islamic women in traditional garb.
The senior class pick for best-dressed female senior at Clifton High
School sports a black skirt and skinny jeans, ankle-high boots and a
cropped white blazer in her yearbook photo. Her makeup is just about
perfect, capped with plum-toned lipstick.
But there is one other fashion accessory that makes Abrar Shahin stand
out: a black, white and blue-green patterned scarf — a hijab — that
wraps around her head and drapes around her neck.
“There are always cheerleaders who win and popular girls, so I was
very surprised it was me, being a hijabi,” Shahin said, using the word
for a person who wears the Islamic head covering. “It was a dream come
true.”
Clifton High School senior Abrar Shahin (far right) was
awarded "best dressed" in the class of 2015. Shahin poses for a
pre-graduation picture with Taylor Szabo (far left) and Katherine
Fraczek (center) on Friday afternoon.
With her trendy style, Shahin, who has a clothing-store job in Paramus
and plans to attend Rutgers this fall, is shattering stereotypes about
Islamic fashion while also keeping true to her religious tradition. The
“best dressed” vote also shows how acceptance has grown at one of the
largest and most diverse high schools in the state. The class of 2015,
which graduated Friday, includes many immigrants and first-generation
students whose families hail from across the globe.
Even in an area as diverse as North Jersey, Clifton stands out for its
global flair. The high school, with about 3,300 students, is 52 percent
Hispanic, 35 percent white, 8 percent Asian and 5 percent black,
according to state records.
But the more telling record is the ancestry breakdown in the U.S.
census, which shows more than 65 groups represented in the city.
Italian, Polish, Puerto Rican, Arab and Peruvian are among the largest
groups. Many people with Turkish, Russian, West Indian, Albanian,
Ukrainian and Hungarian backgrounds also live in Clifton.
Always on point
Lindsey Cinque, a French teacher who is yearbook and senior class
adviser, said that Shahin’s award showed that students can look beyond
labels to honor someone’s accomplishment. Cinque broke the news to
Shahin in class about her win, which seniors decided by writing down the
name of any one of their peers.
“In a class of 800 people, it’s definitely a huge honor that they picked her,” Cinque said.
It’s not clear how many votes Shahin got or whom the votes came from.
The best dressed male, Abraham Zeidan, also happens to be Muslim.
Shahin said her friends are from many backgrounds, while Cinque noted
that all different people in her class would complement Shahin on her
clothes and style.
Although Shahin was surprised by the win, her French teacher of three
years said her great fashion sense was clear to her and to other
students.
“School is early, so a lot of times kids will come in sweat pants or
dressed casually,” Cinque said, about the early hour students must
report for class. “She was always dressed up, and she definitely took a
sense of pride in her fashion.”
The hijab, which covers the head and neck and frames the face, is worn
by Muslim women for different reasons; some believe it shows their
devotion to God or fills God’s commandment for modesty. Others wear it
as an expression of their Muslim identity.
Shahin blends tradition and modern trends to create her style. She
wears a hijab and modest clothing with long sleeves and pants, according
to Muslim custom. At the same time, she wears trendy teenage clothes
from stores like Forever 21.
Her favorite look is “boho-chic,” which she describes as “laid-back and
flowy, effortless and classy.” She likes to pair flowing shirts over
skinny jeans with chunky necklaces or bangle bracelets.
“Every day is different. It depends on my mood,” said Shahin, who also
helps put together outfits for customers at her job at Francesca’s at
the Paramus Park mall.
The whole picture
It is common for women to pair hijabs with modern clothing, and there
are Muslim fashion bloggers who are creating a fashion niche in this
area. The hijab is associated with piety and conservatism in Islam, and
in some cases has been a magnet for scorn or prejudice. But Muslim women
are like other women who want to have fun with fashion and express
themselves, said Sonya Nasser, owner of Arabella Couture, a women’s
clothing store in Paterson.
Nasser said people used to look down on young women for wearing a
hijab. A “best dressed” honor for a hijabi at an American public high
school means times are changing, she said.
“It sends the message that we are able now to set trends and be respected for what we stand for at the same time,” she said.
Shahin plans to study physical therapy at Rutgers but dreams of having a
fashion company on the side. Shahin, who is of Palestinian descent,
said she believes she is the first hijabi to ever win the best-dressed
award.
“It’s such an honor to see that they are looking at us as equal and that they’re not just looking at hijab,” she said.
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