Why Do We "Lose Our Virginity?" And Not "Discover Our Sexuality?"

Alan: Our first sexual experiences are often furtive, sordid or unsatisfying. 

To what extent are these "downsides" attributable to our belief that sexual communication is a loss?

And why is our most satisfying epithet "Fuck you!"

Yes.

Please.

Beyond the glibness, it is true that sex is complicated. 

But sex does not deserve the degradation it gets.

And we deserve better than self-abuse by doing the degradation.

"Why Church Fathers Were So Negative About Sex?"

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Five Reasons You Should Have Sex With Your Husband Every Night

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